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Bad Fat Black Girl by Sesali Bowen

Title: Bad Fat Black Girl: Notes from a Trap Feminist

Author: Sesali Bowen

Publisher: Amistad 2021

Genre: Nonfiction - Memoir

Pages: 272

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

Growing up on the south side of Chicago, Sesali Bowen learned early on how to hustle, stay on her toes, and champion other Black women and femmes as she navigated Blackness, queerness, fatness, friendship, poverty, sex work, and self-love. 

Her love of trap music led her to the top of hip-hop journalism, profiling game-changing artists like Megan Thee Stallion, Lizzo, and Janelle Monae. But despite all the beauty, complexity, and general badassery she saw, Bowen found none of that nuance represented in mainstream feminism. Thus, she coined Trap Feminism, a contemporary framework that interrogates where feminism meets today's hip-hop.

Bad Fat Black Girl offers a new, inclusive feminism for the modern world. Weaving together searing personal essay and cultural commentary, Bowen interrogates sexism, fatphobia, and capitalism all within the context of race and hip-hop. In the process, she continues a Black feminist legacy of unmatched sheer determination and creative resilience.

Bad bitches: this one’s for you.

I’m not usually one for memoirs as I find them to be too self-absorbed and also generalizing. I appreciated this volume focusing on intersectional feminism because of Bowen voice and experiences. We get something very different from the white lady feminism common on Women’s Studies bookshelves. I really dove into her experience and the ways that her life has informed her view of feminism. This was such a great “window” book for me. I cannot understand Bowen’s experience, but I could learn from her stories and her critiques. Definitely a must read for any feminist.

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: memoir, Feminism, Sesali Bowen, 5 stars, nonfiction
categories: Book Reviews
Saturday 11.06.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Under the Whispering Door by TJ Klune

Title: Under the Whispering Door

Author: TJ Klune

Publisher: Tor Books 2021

Genre: Fantasy

Pages: 390

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: Unread Shelf; Unread Shelf RC - Special Occasion

Welcome to Charon's Crossing.
The tea is hot, the scones are fresh, and the dead are just passing through.
When a reaper comes to collect Wallace from his own funeral, Wallace begins to suspect he might be dead.
And when Hugo, the owner of a peculiar tea shop, promises to help him cross over, Wallace decides he’s definitely dead.
But even in death he’s not ready to abandon the life he barely lived, so when Wallace is given one week to cross over, he sets about living a lifetime in seven days.

Another delightful hug of a book from Klune. I was in tears throughout the entire last chapter; happy tears. Klune has this magical way of writing stories and characters that you want to see them have their happily ever after. You want everyone in the books to overcome their obstacles and be happy. You think that you might just be able to do that same for your own life after reading this. Every once in while, I really need a book like this (especially after the last disappointing read). While his previous adult book was about home and family, this one is more about philosophy of life. There is a lot of discussion about how to live your life, your regrets, your dreams. We get some pretty profound conversations between the characters discussing many of these aspects. We get to see a character make a radical change in philosophy. It’s beautiful. The side characters are amazing (seriously wanted to know even more about Mei!) and we get a few twists that I did not see coming. I wanted to savor this book, but ended up speeding through it just loving every page.

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Unread Shelf Project, UnRead Shelf Project RC, TJ Klune, fantasy, 5 stars
categories: Book Reviews
Friday 11.05.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Reprieve by James Han Mattson

Title: Reprieve

Author: James Han Mattson

Publisher: William Morrow 2021

Genre: Fiction

Pages: 412

Rating: 2/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

On April 27, 1997, four contestants make it to the final cell of the Quigley House, a full-contact haunted escape room in Lincoln, Nebraska, made famous for its monstrosities, booby-traps, and ghoulishly costumed actors. If the group can endure these horrors without shouting the safe word, “reprieve,” they’ll win a substantial cash prize—a startling feat accomplished only by one other group in the house’s long history. But before they can complete the challenge, a man breaks into the cell and kills one of the contestants.

Those who were present on that fateful night lend their points of view: Kendra Brown, a teenager who’s been uprooted from her childhood home after the sudden loss of her father; Leonard Grandton, a desperate and impressionable hotel manager caught in a series of toxic entanglements; and Jaidee Charoensuk, a gay international student who came to the United States in a besotted search for his former English teacher. As each character’s journey unfurls and overlaps, deceit and misunderstandings fueled by obsession and prejudice are revealed, forcing all to reckon with the ways in which their beliefs and actions contributed to a horrifying catastrophe.

Ooof, this was a major miss for me. I picked it up because people were talking about this great new horror novel. It’s not horror in a traditional sense at all (despite what the summary implies). It is horror in that it delves into the dark recesses of human minds. It’s terrifying, but in a way that I don’t enjoy reading. I very much dislike reading books where everyone is being terrible to each other. There’s not hope in this book. It was thoroughly depressing. Beyond the subject matter and plot, the writing was not great. I was not enjoying spending pages upon pages with these characters establishing backstory (sometimes years before the events in the book) just to spend so little time at the house. It was unbalanced and felt very much like a slog through most of the chapters. Oddly, the backstory chapters are written in a young adult style. I understand that the characters are young adults in those chapters, but you don’t have to write like that in an adult book. Very odd choice that really left me feeling cold about this book.

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: James Han Mattson, fiction, 2 stars
categories: Book Reviews
Wednesday 11.03.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

November 2021 Life Goals

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Let’s check in on November goals and my progress.

  • Read 15 Books ✓

  • Plan a Fall/Halloween Party with Coop People ✓

  • October Spooky Movie Month ✓

  • Make Tentative Christmas Plans

  • Update Christmas Lists

  • Week in the Life 2021

Goals:

  • Read 15 books, including 5 nonfiction books - Trying to up my nonfiction selections for Nonfiction November

  • Make Christmas Plans - Still deciding if we want to go to Indiana

  • Update Christmas Lists

  • Make 50 Christmas cards - Trying to get back into crafting a bit this season

  • Plan out advent activities

  • Wrap up Coop Changes

  • Make a Homeschool Spring Semester Framework

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Monthly Life Goals
categories: Life
Tuesday 11.02.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Homeschool W11: A Lovely Week Catching Up

What We Studied

It took a few days, but we caught up with our curriculum. We made a lot of progress in all of our subjects and even had a great field trip with our coop friends.

Literature and Poetry

Continuing with our reading of Race to the Sun. We are about 50 pages from the end, but thankfully I built in a break week from our read aloud. We are going to finish Race to the Sun next week and then move into Japanese Folktales. We also covered a few picture book studies for our fall theme.

  • Race to the Sun by Rebecca Roanhorse

  • Plum by Tony Mitton

  • Scarecrow by Cynthia Rylant

  • Stellaluna by Janell Cannon

  • I Need My Monster by Amanda Noll

  • Hey, That’s My Monster by Amanda Roll

  • Pumpkin Jack by Will Hubbell

  • In November by Cynthia Rylant

  • “Robin Hood and His Merry Men” from Favorite Medieval Tales by Mary Pope Osborne

Math

We’re still working through Unit 3 about multiplication and division. We probably have one more week in this unit before we will move on.

  • Singapore Math Common Core Edition 3A

  • Primarily Logic

Social Studies

This week was all about the Ancient Puebloans and Cahokia. We covered both of these civilizations last year in our first year of U.S. History, but it was nice to cover them again. We found some great videos about each of these groups and the ruins that are left. We hope to visit at least Cahokia in the next few years.

  • DK Timelines of Everyone

  • When on Earth

  • DK History

  • DK Timelines of Everything

  • Journey to Cahokia by Albert Lorenze and Joy Schleh

  • Secrets of Mesa Verde by Gail Foy

  • Cliff Dwellings: A Hidden World by Kevin Blake

Arthur Independent Time

To allow for one-on-one time with Quentin, I have added an hour of independent work time for Arthur. Each week, he will have a mix of packet work (mostly grammar and math review), independent reading time, and special projects. Many of his projects will be aligned with our literature selections (some taken from B&R Language Arts curriculum) and history. This week, he focused on packet work and some random building projects.

Science and STEAM Coop

Continuing with our Dinosaur unit from Blossom and Root! We covered the Carboniferous and Permian periods. We also had a great coop meeting where the kids learned about Big Time and the history of life on earth. Afterward, the kids pretended to be paleontologists and worked on their own fossil digs.

  • Everything Awesome About Dinosaurs and Other Prehistoric Beasts by Mike Lowery

  • The Story of Life: Evolution by Katie Scott

  • Life: The First Four Billion Years by Martin Jenkins

  • When the Whales Walked and Other Incredibly Evolutionary Journeys by Dougal Dixon

  • Prehistoric: Before the Dinosaurs by David West

  • DK Prehistoric

  • DK Where on Earth? Dinosaurs and Other Prehistoric Life

  • DK Find Out! Dinosaurs

  • DK Eyewitness Dinosaur

  • Dinosaurium by Chris Wormed and Lily Murray Preface

  • Prehistoric by Kathleen Weidner Zoehfeld

  • Dinothesaurus: Prehistoric Poems and Paintings by Douglas Florian

  • Dinosaur Feathers by Dennis Nolan

  • I am NOT a Dinosaur by Will Lach

 

Art/Music

Nothing this week

 

Quentin

I have scheduled at least four 1-hour time blocks for one-on-one time with Quentin. I bought Blossom and Root’s Early Years Volume 2 curriculum to use as our base. I love the variety of activities and some of the bigger projects included. For ELA, we continued our big overview of the alphabet. We covered more counting and some basic math concepts as well as simple map skills. And we had some puzzles to round out the week. We also finished big unit on transportation.

ELA

  • Once Upon an Alphabet by Oliver Jeffers

  • My “s” Sound Box by Jane Belk Moncure

  • Sammy Skunk’s Super Sniffer by Barbara deRubertis

  • My “t” Sound Box by Jane Belk Moncure

  • Tessa Tiger’s Temper Tantrum by Barbara deRubertis

Math

Other

  • Let’s Go on a Train by Rosalyn Albert

  • Truck and Train by Hannah Stark

  • Chugga Chugga Choo Choo by Emma Garcia

  • Locomotive by Brian Floca

  • Three Grumpy Trucks by Todd Tarpley

  • What a Nice Car by Anita Bijsterbosch

  • Our Car by J.M. Brum

  • Diggersaurus by Michael Whaite

  • My Side of the Car by Kate Feiffer

  • I Like My Car by Michael Robertson

  • Let’s Go on the Plane by Rosalyn Albert

  • Let’s Go on a Rocket by Rosalyn Albert

  • How Does it Work? Airplanes by Jenny Fretland VanVoorst

  • Let’s Go on a Ferry by Rosalyn Albert

  • Lightship by Brian Floca

  • Boats Speeding! Sailing! Cruising! by Patricia Hubbell

  • Let’s Go on a Tractor by Rosalyn Albert

  • If I Built a Car by Chris van Dusen

  • Red Truck, Yellow Truck by Michelle Robinson

  • I Drive a Snowplow by Sarah Bridges

  • Race Car Count by Rebecca Kai Dotlich

  • Thunder Trucks by Cheryl Klein & Katy Beebe

Field Trip

We headed to Schramm State Park to look for fossils at the geologic site. It was cold and a bit windy, we had a great morning with our friends. We found a ton of crinoids and some coral pieces in the rocks. I love that we we can visit someplace that has exposed rocks from when Nebraska was underwater 350 million years ago.

Documentary Selection

I have carved out a one hour time block each week to watch a documentary related to our studies. We didn’t actually watch anything this week, but made up for it by all the PBS Eons videos for our dinosaur unit.

Misc. - Random picture books read

  • What Kind of Car Does a T. rex Drive? by Mark Lee

  • Here we Go Digging for Dinosaur Bones by Susan Lendroth

  • Ten Timid Ghosts by Jennifer O’Connell

  • Room on the Broom by Julia Donaldson

  • The Girl and the Dinosaur by Hollie Hughes

  • The Leaf Thief by Alice Hemming

  • Counting on Fall by Lizann Flatt

High

  • Looking for fossils was delightful! We will definitely have to revisit Schramm sometime very soon.

Low

  • Um… I cannot think of anything right now.

Next Week

  • Finishing Race to the Sun and starting Japanese Folktales

  • Moving to Asia and the Mongol Empire for history

  • Wrapping up multiplication and division

  • Finally getting to the Triassic for the Dinosaur Unit

  • Covering dinosaurs for coop! (We’re hosting!)

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: homeschool
categories: Life
Monday 11.01.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

October 2021 Wrap-up

October TBR Pile (19/30):

  1. Foundation and Earth by Isaac Asimov ✓

  2. The Wallflower Wager by Tessa Dare ✓

  3. The Hazel Wood by Melissa Albert (reread for book club) ✓

  4. Bird Box by Josh Malerman ✓

  5. Crooked Kingdom by Leigh Bardugo ✓

  6. Catherine House by Elizabeth Thomas

  7. Sunshine by Robin McKinley (reread)

  8. The Guide by Peter Heller ✓

  9. The Woods are Always Watching by Stephanie Perkins ✓

  10. Bloodlust and Bonnets by Emily McGovern ✓

  11. The End and Everything After by Matt Fraction

  12. The Happy Ever After Playlist by Abby Jimenez

  13. Isla and the Happily Ever After by Stephanie Perkins

  14. Lady Killer by Joelle Jones

  15. The Bloody Chamber and Other Stories by Angela Carter ✓

  16. Red Wolf by Rachel Vincent

  17. The Tea Dragon Tapestry by Katie O’Neill

  18. The Halloween Tree by Ray Bradbury ✓

  19. Meddling Kids by Edgar Cantero

  20. The Diabolical Miss Hyde by Viola Carr

  21. Dr. Mütter’s Marvels by Cristin O’Keefe Aptowicz

  22. Love Lettering by Kate Clayborn ✓

  23. Portrait of a Scotsman by Evie Dunmore ✓

  24. The House that Fell from the Sky by Patrick Delaney ✓

  25. House of Shadows by Darcy Coates ✓

  26. House of Secrets by Darcy Coates ✓

  27. The Ex Hex by Erin Sterling ✓

  28. In Love with a Haunted House by Kate Goldman ✓

  29. Race to the Sun by Rebecca Roanhorse ✓

  30. A Spindle Splintered by Alix E. Harrow ✓

1,000,000 Page Goal:

Monthly Total: 5812 pages
Pages Remaining: 445,962 pages

Current Read - Under the Whispering Door by TJ Klune; Code Name Helene by Ariel Lawhon

Books I Gave Up On (0)

Books Bought/Received (11) - At the beginning of the month, I had my bookish retreat. While I did try to limit myself to just a small stack of books bought at the stores that weekend, I still came away with a few to add to my shelves. And I acquired one during our book exchange. I also picked up two books from Book of the Month. For the first time, I bought books from the Indie Press List from my beloved Currently reading podcast. Their October selections were all spooky and just what I had been wanting! And a friend gifted me a book (TJ Klune) as a thank you for setting up the retreat.

  • The Comfort Book by Matt Haig (exchange)

  • Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler (retreat)

  • Reliquary by Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child (retreat)

  • Down and Out in the Magic Kingdom by Cory Doctorow (retreat)

  • The City & The City by China Miéville (retreat)

  • Under the Whispering Door by TJ Klune (gift)

  • Portrait of a Scotsman by Evie Dunmore (BOTM)

  • The Ex Hex by Erin Sterling (BOTM)

  • A Spindle Splintered by Alix E. Harrow (Indie Press List)

  • Plain Bad Heroines by Emily Danforth (Indie Press List)

  • The Night Gardeners by (Indie Press List)

UnRead Shelf Progress

  • Starting Number: 283

  • Books Read: 3

  • Books Acquired: 11

  • Books Unshelved: 0

  • Finishing Number: 291

November TBR Pile: I often read nonfiction, but I’m going to try to increase my numbers for this Nonfiction November.

  1. BOTM: TBD

  2. Bookworms BC: Code Name Helene by Ariel Lawhon

  3. Friend BC: Harlem Shuffle by Colson Whitehead

  4. Nonfiction: The Anthropocene Reviewed by John Green

  5. Nonfiction: Girl Gurl Grrrl by Kenya Hunt

  6. Nonfiction: Dr. Mutter’s Marvels by Cristin O’Keefe Aptowicz

  7. Nonfiction: The Comfort Book by Matt Haig

  8. Nonfiction Bad Fat Black Girl by Sesali Bowen

  9. The Last Unicorn by Peter S. Beagle

  10. Under the Whispering Door by TJ Klune

  11. Red Wolf by Rachel Vincent

  12. Beautiful Bastard by Christina Lauren

  13. Malorie by Josh Malerman

Movies watched - It was spooky movie month. I usually make a giant list from which we pick a movie most nights. We had quite a mix of movies watched this October.

  • Lady of the Manor - A bit uneven

  • Free Guy - Of course I loved this one

  • Escape from Planet of the Apes - Very decent movie

  • The Relic - This one actually holds up well

  • The Shadow - Went with a Penelope Ann Miller run and rewatched this one. Very cheesy at parts, but a good adventure movie.

  • The Dead Don’t Die - Loved it until the voice over at the end scene. Much too heavy-handed.

  • Brazil - It’s been years. Still as weird as I remember. Love the ducts! We also watched the tv edit and the making of documentary.

  • Touch of Evil - Somehow I had never seen this. Another amazing Orson Welles picture!

  • Detective Pikachu - Arthur’s birthday movie choice. I really enjoyed this one.

  • Brotherhood of the Wolf - J’s been trying to get me to watch this one for years. Pretty good supernatural-ish action movie.

  • Dune - Oh goodness that was a beautiful movie. So glad that the sequel has been greenlit.

  • North by Northwest - Haven’t seen this in years. Love it!

  • Sleepaway Camp - Watched the sequel last year,

TV Shows watched 

  • Last Week Tonight

  • Lower Decks S2

  • Archer S12

  • Ted Lasso S2

  • Foundation S1

Comments - Great reading month for October. I covered a ton of spooky books and really leaned into my moods. We didn’t watch 30 spooky movies, but had a decent showing of 14 movies watched (two versions of Brazil). And we finished a few seasons of television (Lower Decks, Archer, Ted Lasso).

Next up on the TBR pile:

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categories: Monthly Wrap-Up
Sunday 10.31.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Race to the Sun by Rebecca Roanhorse

Title: Race to the Sun

Author: Rebecca Roanhorse

Publisher: Disney Hyperion 2020

Genre: Middle Grade Fantasy

Pages: 298

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

Lately, seventh grader Nizhoni Begay has been able to detect monsters, like that man in the fancy suit who was in the bleachers at her basketball game. Turns out he's Mr. Charles, her dad's new boss at the oil and gas company, and he's alarmingly interested in Nizhoni and her brother, Mac, their Navajo heritage, and the legend of the Hero Twins. Nizhoni knows he's a threat, but her father won't believe her. When Dad disappears the next day, leaving behind a message that says "Run!", the siblings and Nizhoni's best friend, Davery, are thrust into a rescue mission that can only be accomplished with the help of Diné Holy People, all disguised as quirky characters. Their aid will come at a price: the kids must pass a series of trials in which it seems like nature itself is out to kill them. If Nizhoni, Mac, and Davery can reach the House of the Sun, they will be outfitted with what they need to defeat the ancient monsters Mr. Charles has unleashed. But it will take more than weapons for Nizhoni to become the hero she was destined to be . . . Timeless themes such as the importance of family and respect for the land resonate in this funny, fast-paced, and exciting quest adventure set in the American Southwest.

This was an addition to our homeschool curriculum. I thought it fit well with the theme of “Fantastic Journeys and Perilous Quests.” We get a great story weaving Navajo myths and stories with a very modern day middle school girl. The writing style is very much like Rick Riordan’s Percy Jackson series. I wonder if that was the direction given to these various authors. I wanted a bit more of a difference, but the characters and story definitely made up for it. We learned a lot about Navajo culture and had a lot of fun along the way.

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: fantasy, middle grade, Rebecca Roanhorse, 5 stars, mythology, homeschool
categories: Book Reviews
Saturday 10.30.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Bloodlust & Bonnets by Emily McGovern

Title: Bloodlust & Bonnets

Author: Emily McGovern

Publisher: Andrews McMeel Publishing 2019

Genre: Comics

Pages: 216

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

Set in early nineteenth-century Britain, Bloodlust & Bonnets follows Lucy, an unworldly debutante who desires a life of passion and intrigue—qualities which earn her the attention of Lady Violet Travesty, the leader of a local vampire cult.

But before Lucy can embark on her new life of vampiric debauchery, she finds herself unexpectedly thrown together with the flamboyant poet Lord Byron (“from books!”) and a mysterious bounty-hunter named Sham. The unlikely trio lie, flirt, fight, and manipulate each other as they make their way across Britain, disrupting society balls, slaying vampires, and making every effort not to betray their feelings to each other as their personal and romantic lives become increasingly entangled.

What a delightfully funny little graphic novel! I randomly picked this one up from a shelf at the library and let it sit on my floor for weeks. I grabbed it after starting a very disappointing novel. This was just what i needed. Right away, we meet Lucy and then Byron (you know, like in the books) and encounter a cult of vampires. From there we follow a twisty and turny path to reconnect with those vampires to slay them? Questions and declarations and puns and double entendres abound! I was snort laughing throughout most of the book. I especially loved the little interactions with Napoleon the Eagle and Castle. Oh so good! If you need a pick-me-up that actually discussions love and duty and fate, pick this one up!

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Emily McGovern, graphic novel, 5 stars, Regency, vampires
categories: Book Reviews
Friday 10.29.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Odds and Ends

Here's my randomness for the week:

  • Trying desperately to finish a few more spooky books before this month is over…

  • I really love learning about dinosaurs. So glad that’s the boys’ current obsession.

  • Double book club meetings this week. So much book talk!

  • Here’s hoping that we get out to the state parks a few more times before the year ends.

  • Oh the tv show Foundation is so good. I don’t want the season to end.

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Odds and Ends
categories: Life
Thursday 10.28.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

A Spindle Splintered by Alix E. Harrow

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Title: A Spindle Splintered (Fractured Fables #1)

Author: Alix E. Harrow

Publisher: Tordotcom 2021

Genre: Fantasy

Pages: 126

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: Unread Shelf; Seasonal TBR

It's Zinnia Gray's twenty-first birthday, which is extra-special because it's the last birthday she'll ever have. When she was young, an industrial accident left Zinnia with a rare condition. Not much is known about her illness, just that no-one has lived past twenty-one.

Her best friend Charm is intent on making Zinnia's last birthday special with a full sleeping beauty experience, complete with a tower and a spinning wheel. But when Zinnia pricks her finger, something strange and unexpected happens, and she finds herself falling through worlds, with another sleeping beauty, just as desperate to escape her fate.

Loved this meta fairy tale where Zinnia falls into her favorite story, Sleeping Story. We get multiple pop culture references along Zinnia’s path to her own story. This book is very short, but fast-paced and fun. I loved seeing her interact with the other fairy tale characters. The twist at the end made the book worth it.

Fractured Fables

  • #1 A Spindle Splintered

  • #2 A Mirror Mended

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Alix E. Harrow, 5 stars, fairy tale stories, fantasy, Unread Shelf Project, Fall TBR List
categories: Book Reviews
Wednesday 10.27.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

In Love with a Haunted House by Kate Goldman

Title: In Love with a Haunted House

Author: Kate Goldman

Publisher: 2019

Genre: Romance

Pages: 130

Rating: 3/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

The last thing Mallory Clark wants to do is move back home. She has no choice, though, since the company she worked for in Chicago has just downsized her, and everybody else. To make matters worse her fiancé has broken their engagement, and her heart, leaving her hurting and scarred. When her mother tells her that the house she always coveted as a child, the once-famed Gray Oaks Manor, is not only on the market but selling for a song, it seems to Mallory that the best thing she could possibly do would be to put Chicago, and everything and everyone in it, behind her. Arriving back home she runs into gorgeous and mysterious Blake Hunter. Blake is new to town and like her he is interested in buying the crumbling old Victorian on the edge of the historic downtown center, although his reasons are his own. Blake is instantly intrigued by the flame-haired beauty with the fiery temper and the vulnerable expression in her eyes. He can feel the attraction between them and knows it is mutual, but he also knows that the last thing on earth he needs is to get involved with a woman determined to take away a house he has to have.

Big caveat: I realize that this is more like a short story than a novel, so my review might be a bit unfair. But I still stand by my thoughts on this one.

I really really really wanted to love this story. I love the set-up of a woman returning to her hometown and attempting to buy the gothic mansion next door. I love the arrival of a long-lost grandson to stake a claim on the mansion. I love love love the idea of them getting together and working out how to deal with their attraction to each other and the house over the course of the story. I disliked how rushed this all feels. And I really dislike the weird interludes from the ghost. This seems like more of an initial story treatment than something that you actually publish.

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: romance, Kate Goldman, ghosts, 3 stars
categories: Book Reviews
Wednesday 10.27.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

The Ex Hex by Erin Sterling

Title: The Ex Hex

Author: Erin Sterling

Publisher: Avon 2021

Genre: Romance

Pages: 318

Rating: 4/5 stars

Reading Challenges: Unread Shelf; Unread Shelf RC - Author You’ve Never Read Before

Nine years ago, Vivienne Jones nursed her broken heart like any young witch would: vodka, weepy music, bubble baths…and a curse on the horrible boyfriend. Sure, Vivi knows she shouldn’t use her magic this way, but with only an “orchard hayride” scented candle on hand, she isn’t worried it will cause him anything more than a bad hair day or two.

That is until Rhys Penhallow, descendent of the town’s ancestors, breaker of hearts, and annoyingly just as gorgeous as he always was, returns to Graves Glen, Georgia. What should be a quick trip to recharge the town’s ley lines and make an appearance at the annual fall festival turns disastrously wrong. With one calamity after another striking Rhys, Vivi realizes her silly little Ex Hex may not have been so harmless after all.

Suddenly, Graves Glen is under attack from murderous wind-up toys, a pissed off ghost, and a talking cat with some interesting things to say. Vivi and Rhys have to ignore their off the charts chemistry to work together to save the town and find a way to break the break-up curse before it’s too late.

I picked this one up and sped through it in about two days. Perfect read for this witchy week. This is a light-hearted mystery and romance set in a small college town. I enjoyed the setting and the atmosphere. I enjoyed the side characters and the general vibe. I really loved all the fun witchy adventures. I could have used more romance inn that it seemed to get the romance started and then speed ahead. I wanted to sit int he romance a bit more before moving to the next scene. I also wanted a bit more of the mystery drawn out. The ending came very abruptly and I just wanted a bit more.

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Book of the Month, Erin Sterling, romance, Halloween, Unread Shelf Project, UnRead Shelf Project RC, 4 stars
categories: Book Reviews
Tuesday 10.26.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Homeschool Fall Break: We Caught Up!

 

What We Studied

Originally I had scheduled our Fall Break week for this past week. I knew we would get behind on curriculum because of sickness or unexpected disruptions. Thankfully it happened because of the second reason not the first. That meant that we ended up taking this week to catch up on some subjects and do a bit of fill in. The kids had no idea that I scrapped their break week. (To be fair, we have had our share of break days throughout the fall.)

Literature and Poetry

Continuing with our reading of Race to the Sun. We are a bit behind due to lots of random things, but we’re really enjoying the story and will finish soon. We also covered a few picture book studies for our fall theme.

  • Race to the Sun by Rebecca Roanhorse

  • Hidden City: Poems of Urban Wildlife by Sarah Grace Tuttle

  • I and You and Don’t Forget Who: What is a Pronoun by Brian P. Cleary

  • When I was Young in the Mountains by Cynthia Rylant

  • Piggie Pie by Margie Palatini

  • The Adventures of Beekle by Dan Santat

Math

We’re still working through Unit 3 about multiplication and division. We’ll be staying here for another few weeks to gain some mastery. We also read a few math related picture books, including starting the Sir Cumference series.

  • Singapore Math Common Core Edition 3A

  • The Wing Brothers: Carnival de Math by Ethan Long

  • Sir Cumference and the First Round Table by

 

Social Studies

This week was all about the Magna Carta.

  • DK Timelines of Everyone

  • When on Earth

  • DK History

  • A Medieval Feast by Aliki

  • A Medieval Cathedral by Fiona MacDonald

  • The Magna Carta: Cornerstone of the Constitution by Roberta Baxter

 

Arthur Independent Time

To allow for one-on-one time with Quentin, I have added an hour of independent work time for Arthur. Each week, he will have a mix of packet work (mostly grammar and math review), independent reading time, and special projects. Many of his projects will be aligned with our literature selections (some taken from B&R Language Arts curriculum) and history. This week, he focused on packet work and some random building projects.

 

Science and STEAM Coop

Continuing with our Dinosaur unit from Blossom and Root! We covered the Cambrian, Ordovician, Silurian and Devonian Periods.

  • Everything Awesome About Dinosaurs and Other Prehistoric Beasts by Mike Lowery

  • The Story of Life: Evolution by Katie Scott

  • Life: The First Four Billion Years by Martin Jenkins

  • When the Whales Walked and Other Incredibly Evolutionary Journeys by Dougal Dixon

  • Prehistoric: Before the Dinosaurs by David West

  • DK Prehistoric

  • Prehistoric by Kathleen Weidner Zoehfeld

Art/Music

Nothing this week

 

Quentin

I have scheduled at least four 1-hour time blocks for one-on-one time with Quentin. I bought Blossom and Root’s Early Years Volume 2 curriculum to use as our base. I love the variety of activities and some of the bigger projects included. For ELA, we continued our big overview of the alphabet. We covered more counting and some basic math concepts as well as simple map skills. And we had some puzzles to round out the week. We also continued a big unit on transportation.

ELA

  • Once Upon an Alphabet by Oliver Jeffers

  • My “q” Sound Box by Jane Belk Moncure

  • Quentin Quokka’s by Barbara deRubertis

  • My “r” Sound Box by Jane Belk Moncure

  • Rosie Raccoon’s Rock and Roll Raft by Barbara deRubertis

  • The Very Quiet Cricket by Eric Carle

  • Quick as a Cricket by Dan and Audrey Woods

Math

Other

  • Awesome Ambulances by Tony Mitton

  • Flash the Little Fire Engine by Pam Calvert

  • Emergency Vehicles by Melissa Abramovitz

  • Patrolling Police Cars by Tony Mitton

  • Dial 9-1-1! by Charles Ghigna

  • A Fire Truck Named Red by Randall de Sève

  • Emergency Monster Squad by Dave Horowitz

  • Counting Cars

  • All Kinds of Cars by Carl Johanson

  • The Gingerbread Man Loose on the Fire Truck by Laura Murray

  • Bunnies on the Bus by Philip Ardagh

  • Let’s Build by Julie M. Fenner

  • Diggers by Amy Johnson

  • Mighty, Mighty Construction Site by Sherry Dusky Rinker

  • Let’s Go on a Digger by Rosalyn Albert

  • Trucks Galore by Peter Stein

  • The Digger and the Flower by Joseph Kuefler

  • The Mixed-Up Truck by Stephen Savage

  • Truck, Truck, Goose by Tammi Sauer

Field Trip

One last trip to Vala’s for the season! We arrived right when they opened, met up with friends, and spent 6 1/2 hours there! So much fun. Each of the boys picked one thing that they could not miss (bouncy pillows for Quentin and the corn pit for Arthur). Plus, we grabbed a few pumpkins and some cookies on the way out. Another successful season at one of my favorite places.

 

Documentary Selection

I have carved out a one hour time block each week to watch a documentary related to our studies. We didn’t actually watch anything this week, but made up for it by all the PBS Eons videos for our dinosaur unit.

 

Misc. - Random picture books read

  • One Leaf, Two Leaves, Count with Me by John Micklos Jr.

  • Yellow Time by Lauren Stringer

  • Never Ask a Dinosaur to Dinner by Gareth Edwards

  • Leaves by David Ezra Stein

 

Highs and Low

  • We loved our fist trip to Vala’s, but were so sad that it was our last one of the season. I might just buy season passes next year. I just love going and that would allow us to do a few mornings instead of three marathon days. And maybe we could go at night with J one time like on a Wednesday or something.

 

Next Week

  • Continuing to read Race to the Sun

  • Moving to Cahokia and the Ancient Puebloans for history

  • Mastering multiplication and division

  • Moving forward in time for the Dinosaur Unit

  • Covering dinosaurs for coop! (We’re hosting!)

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: homeschool
categories: Life
Monday 10.25.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Music Monday - DED "Kill Beautiful Things"

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A new find of mine on Octane. I really love this song that’s playing on repeat.

tags: DED
categories: Music
Monday 10.25.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Life Right Now #32

As I look outside my window: It’s raining… a very dreary and cold day ahead of us. Perfect for reading a good book with a hot cup of tea and a cozy blanket.

Right now I am: Getting ready to pick up that book before I have to do house cleaning tasks.

Thinking and pondering: How has my task list grown so much in the past month? Blergh.

On my bedside table: A Spindle Splintered by Alix Harrow; Code Name Helene by Ariel Lawhon

On my tv this week: We caught up on some of our currently airing shows (What We Do in the Shadows), finishing a few seasons (Lower Decks, Ted Lasso).

Listening to: I’m hoping to get to Dungeons and Daddies today. I got distracted this week with the return of The Bachelorette.

On the menu for this week:

  • Monday - Shrimp Burrito Bowls

  • Tuesday - Out at Inner Rail

  • Wednesday - Out at Spin Pizza

  • Thursday - Smoked Sausage and Potatoes

  • Friday - Black Bean Stuffed Sweet Potatoes

  • Saturday - Parmesan Tilpaia

  • Sunday - Zimbabwe Peanut Stew

On my to do list: Oh so many things. But I really need to focus on some organizational tasks such as getting November and December’s lesson plans prepped and cleaning out my download folder. I also need to submit my hours and double check Alex’s financial aid package.

Happening this week:

  • Monday - Home Day

  • Tuesday - Schramm Field Trip; Bookworms Book Club

  • Wednesday - Home Day; Friend Book Club

  • Thursday - Coop about Dinosaurs

  • Friday - Home Day

  • Saturday - D&D (First Meeting!)

  • Sunday - Halloween!

What I am creating: Nothing. I really should get moving on Christmas cards…

My simple pleasures: Good parties with good friends. A clean living room. Finding good documentaries.

Looking around the house: Yesterday, I got the first floor cleaned up. It’s amazing how better I feel when there aren’t piles of things laying around. I feel so much better.

From the camera: Boo at the Zoo! It was nice to experience this again.

 
tags: Life Right Now
categories: Weekly Wrap-up
Sunday 10.24.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Love Lettering by Kate Clayborn

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Title: Love Lettering

Author: Kate Clayborn

Publisher: Kensington Books 2019

Genre: Romance

Pages: 322

Rating: 4/5 stars

Reading Challenges: Modern Mrs. Darcy

Meg Mackworth’s hand-lettering skill has made her famous as the Planner of Park Slope, designing custom journals for her New York City clientele. She has another skill too: reading signs that other people miss. Knowing the upcoming marriage of Reid Sutherland and his polished fiancée was doomed to fail is one thing, but weaving a secret word of warning into their wedding program is another. Meg may have thought no one would spot it, but she hadn’t counted on sharp-eyed, pattern-obsessed Reid.

A year later, Reid has tracked Meg down to find out how she knew that his meticulously planned future was about to implode. But with a looming deadline and a bad case of creative block, Meg doesn’t have time for Reid’s questions—unless he can help her find her missing inspiration. As they gradually open up to each other, both try to ignore a deepening connection between them. But the signs are there—irresistible, indisputable, urging Meg to heed the messages Reid is sending her, before it’s too late . . .

Overall I did really enjoy this lighter romantic comedy. We get the silly meet-cute, lots of complications, and a happily ever after. In between, I grew to like Meg and Reid. Or really, I grew to like Meg a lot. Reid stayed too much of an enigma for me. I wanted to see him come out of the shell more and learn more about his likes and desires. His character didn’t go quite deep enough for me. The romance is very slow burn, but that’s okay. I sometimes like a slow burn. Once we get to something, the something happens very fast. I would have liked to spend a bit more time with them as a couple before the big reveal happens. From there, I disliked how fast the pace moved and how quickly things wrapped up in a neat bow. The book is very light-hearted and fun at most points in the story. I stayed engaged with the story and flew through the pages.

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Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: Modern Mrs. Darcy, romance, Kate Clayborn, 4 stars
categories: Book Reviews
Saturday 10.23.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

House of Secrets by Darcy Coates

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Title: House of Secrets (Ghosts and Shadows #2)

Author: Darcy Coates

Publisher: Black Owl Books 2016

Genre: Horror

Pages: 246

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

Sophie and Joseph’s escape from Northwood is short-lived. The beast survived, and attached itself to Joseph’s young cousin, Elise.

Garrett writes to beg for their help. Joseph and Sophie travel to meet him at Kensington, a long-abandoned mansion that overlooks a dead town.

The house offers a small hope: its original owner had dedicated her life to researching the monster that possesses Elise. Garrett hopes to find a way to kill the creature without harming his daughter.

But Kensington is a dangerous building. Once the carriage leaves, they’re trapped inside the collapsing walls and forced to confront the horrors within.

Shrouded figures stalk them. Whispers echo through the night. Unmarked graves dot the property.

And the dead are not as restful as they seem…

And now the sequel! Right away we know that the Grimlock was not vanquished and Sophie and Joseph are pulled back into the horrors fo the Argenton family. We change settings, but not the horror. We still get all the creepy gothic vibes and horrifying happenings. Kensington and Ms. Bishop were great perfect additions to the larger storyline. The pages flew by with me desperate to find out what happens next. Perfect reading for this season! And now I am going to have to put more Darcy Coates books onto my TBR.

Ghosts and Shadows

  • #1 House of Shadows

  • #2 House of Secrets

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: horror, Darcy Coates, 5 stars, ghosts
categories: Book Reviews
Friday 10.22.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

Videos Falling Like Leaves

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Oh yes! I must watch this one!

Oh. A Chinese vampire movie. This might be an interesting take on the genre.

Not sure how I feel about this one, but you know I’ll probably watch it anyway.

Putting this on the list…

Dumb and entertaining

Thursday 10.21.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

House of Shadows by Darcy Coates

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Title: House of Shadows (Ghosts and Shadows #1)

Author: Darcy Coates

Publisher: Black Owl Books 2015

Genre: Horror

Pages: 294

Rating: 5/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

Sophie’s world is shattered when disaster bankrupts her family. She’s still reeling from the news when she’s offered an unexpected solution: Mr Argenton, a wealthy stranger, asks for her hand in marriage.

Marrying Mr Argenton will restore her family’s fortunes and save them from scandal, but condemns Sophie to a life in Northwood, a vast and unnaturally dark mansion situated hours from civilisation.

Sophie struggles to adjust to her new position as mistress over the desolate house. Mr Argenton’s relatives are cold, and Mr Argenton himself is keeping secrets. Even worse, the house is more than it seems.

The piano plays in the middle of the night. Blood drips from the ceiling. Sophie is pulled towards the terrifying truth: Northwood’s ancient halls are haunted. The malevolent spirits—produced by grisly deaths—resent her intrusion into their home.

Trapped in Northwood and desperate for an escape, Sophie’s fate is further complicated as she finds herself drawn to the tall, dark-eyed man she married. She suspects her feelings are returned, but Mr Argenton is hiding something... and his secrets are so dangerous that they might just be unforgivable.

Now this is the haunted house story that I wanted to read (especially after the disappointing book from yesterday)! Right away we now that there’s something creepy going on with Mr. Argenton. I knew where the story was going to go next, but I was there for every page. This gave me Crimson Peak vibes, perfect for this month. Once Sophie arrives at Northwood, the terrors begin to surface and do not let up until the very end. I was thoroughly creeped out by the odd doings that occur. That was exactly the feeling I was hoping to manifest. So incredibly good! I loved Sophie and Joseph and their budding relationship. We get a very Jane Eyre style romance perfect for this mystery. This book ends with a conclusion, but there is a sequel and I had to pick it up next!

Ghosts and Shadows

  • #1 House of Shadows

  • #2 House of Secrets

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: horror, Darcy Coates, 5 stars, ghosts
categories: Book Reviews
Wednesday 10.20.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 

The House That Fell From the Sky by Patrick R. Delaney

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Title: The House that Fell from the Sky

Author: Patrick Delaney

Publisher: 2020

Genre: Horror

Pages: 573

Rating: 2/5 stars

Reading Challenges: 

When twenty-nine-year-old Scarlett Vantassel comes to the conclusion that her life doesn’t resemble any of the things she actually wanted for herself, she drops out of school and moves back home, attempting to reconnect with the people she left behind. But a shadow falls over her return one early October morning when a sinister house miraculously appears in the center of the city, sparking a media frenzy that attracts attention nationwide.

Soon after the newspapers label it, "The House that Fell from the Sky," Scarlett’s childhood friend Hannah becomes obsessed with the idea that the house holds the key to discovering whether there really is life after death. Undeterred by her friends' numerous warnings, Hannah becomes increasingly consumed with the desire to enter the house, convinced it would allow her to reconnect with her recently deceased mother.

Despite a series of escalating events suggesting that the house may be more dangerous than anyone ever thought possible, a privately owned company seizes control of the property and hosts a lottery to lure the city’s residents, promising the winners a large cash reward if they dare to enter the house. To Scarlett’s horror, Hannah uses her vast wealth to secure a spot among the winners to gain access to the house.

Now, it’s up to Scarlett, her older brother Tommy, and her friend Jackson to face their fears and journey into a place where nothing is ever quite as it seems, and decide if they can help a friend in need, or if Hannah truly is lost.

Read that premise again. Sounds absolutely amazing, right? This sounded like a book that I would love. But alas, it was a big disappointment. My biggest problem with the book is the characters. Supposedly Scarlett is 29 years old. Nope… I don’t buy it. She and her friends like more like 16 year olds. The disconnect really annoyed me greatly. I could not connect to the characters at all. Often their motivations were very muddled and confusing. Hannah especially really annoyed and confused me. Beyond the characters, the story ends up being pretty boring. I was excited for a creepy house to explore, but it took forever to actually get to the house. And once we got inside, it was a confusing mess. So many times, I was thoroughly confused by what was actually happening at any given moment. It felt like the story was missing whole sections to actually immerse yourself into the atmosphere. Overall, a very big disappointment for me.

Next up on the TBR pile:

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tags: 2 stars, horror, Patrick R. Delaney
categories: Book Reviews
Tuesday 10.19.21
Posted by Tobe Buffenbarger
 
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