Prompt: A list of your favorite blog posts you've written.
My favorite current blog posts are all about my pregnancy updates and the 52 Weeks of Arthur posts.
Blog-Tember Day 18: A Lifesaver
Prompt: One product that simplifies your life.
The key to simplifying my life is list making! I need to make sure that I know my schedule and my tasks. Otherwise my life would fall apart. My one product is actually a combination of three different products that work in tandem: Evernote, The Happy Planner, and a Moleskine Notebook. I use Evernote to plan out my blog posts and Project Life ideas. I can quickly pull up my schedule and see what needs to be finished. You can see an example of my Craft Blog schedule below. I have two notes for each month, one for the life blog and one for the craft blog. I list out my weeks and add my proposed post title. If the post hasn't been created in the blog, it gets an asterisk at the end. After the post is completed, I strikethrough the title. This helps me stay organized on the blog side.
My next life organizing product is The Happy Planner by MAMBI. I love having a planner, but found that just an electronic one didn't work for me. I need the physical product to help me. Enter The Happy Planner. I've been using mine since July 2015 and continue to love it. I can quickly flip to a month view or a weekly view to see my activities and appointments and tasks. I also use the planner to help meal plan. I decided the best way to do meal planning was to create post-it flags with all the regular dishes. I can then tentatively plan each week out but still be able to move them around if needed.
The last project is a simple Moleskine. I tried to do a complete bullet journal in a Moleskine but found that I needed Evernote and The Happy Planner to round out my life. But I still needed a place to to keeps lists, project planning, and collections. Enter the simple Moleskine. An example below is my spending log for part of September.
The Moleskine goes with me wherever I go. Sometimes I add things in there and then transfer to one of my other projects. But in reality they all work together to keep my life simplified and on track.
Blog-Tember Day 17: Vlog?
Prompt: Vlogging day! Record a vlog about anything you like!
Nope, Not happening today. Way too much on my plate.
Blog-Tember Day 16: Self Care
Prompt: How do you de-stress/take care of yourself?
My biggest selfcare is reading. I promised myself after having children that I wouldn't give up my reading. Sure there are many times that I can't read because there's something or someone else needing my attention. I can't spend all day lost in a book anymore. But I still make reading a priority and find time to do it. Before the littlest kid, I was reading ~15 books a month. That number has gone down due to the necessity of taking care of a child. However, I'm still averaging about ~8 books a month. Reading is the biggest activity that recharges my batteries. Hoping to continue the trend after this new baby comes...
Blog-Tember Day 15: Adventure Time
Prompt: What is the craziest adventure you've ever been on?
My craziest adventure was a trip I took all the way back in 2000. For our senior year of high school's spring break, two friends and I took the train all the from Indiana to NYC for a week of adventures and shenanigans. I don't think we slept more than 20 hours that whole week. Me being the uber planner created a detailed itinerary for each day. This ensured that we actually got to see the things we wanted to see in the city but it left plenty of room for crazy side trips and misadventures. Among the weirdness from that trip, we:
- made friends with the Albanian bell hop at the hotel. Very strange!
- spent almost all night talking to the cast of the live action Rocky Horror Picture Show in Greenwich Village
- watched the aurora borealis on the beach at Coney Island with a bunch of amateur astronomists
- ordered and received a bottle of wine at a small Indonesian restaurant
- took a super sketchy subway ride late night in the Brooklyn
- got lost a countless number of times
- score front row orchestra seats to see Aida, and met the cast afterwards including the lead Heather Headley who graduated from our rival high school!
- ate crap, but managed to survive the week
- somehow made it back to Indiana in one piece
It was my only real spring break trip and it was amazing!
Blog-Tember Day 14: Mood Board
Prompt: Make a mood board! Are you brainstorming a room re-do, a capsule wardrobe, or already planning for the holidays? Show us your ideas! I have examples here and here.
For my mood board, I'm highlighting my love of fall. Living in California now, we don't get a proper fall. I long for the days of falling leaves, cool weather, and hot tea. Since i can't have the fall weather, I'll settle for pumpkin everything, a good book, a piece of cake, and a hot cup of tea.
Blog-Tember Day 13: Freaky Friday
Prompt: If you could switch lives with someone for a day, who would it be? Why?
After this week, I'm going say that I would switch lives with anyone who isn't pregnant right now. Right at 38 weeks and I must say that I am over this pregnancy. My pain level has been steadily increasing for the last few weeks. Can't wait until this little boy makes his appearance.
Blog-Tember Day 12: Books
Prompt: Three books! One you just read, one you're currently reading, and one you want to read.
I just read The Last Camellia by Sarah Jio. This is our book club selection for September. Even though I won't be able to attend club (baby day!), I wanted to read this one as it was on my shelves. Interesting read until the last 15 pages or so. Then it lost me.
I'm currently reading Founding Myths by Ray Raphael. Continuing my love of U.S. History books, I finally dove into this one. It's been sitting on my shelf for years now. Interesting read so far even though I know a lot of the info presented already.
I really really really want to read Voyager by Diana Gabaldon. I've been meaning to continue the Outlander series for a few months now. Hopefully soon!
Blog-Tember Day 11: Instagram Love
Prompt: Round up of your favorite Instagrammers! Who should we follow?
Currently I follow 116 different Instagram accounts. A majority of those are friends and/or family. Of the rest, I have a variety of crafty people, Bay Area centric accounts, lifestyle, and music. Here are my current favorites:
- @amandapalmer -- Musician, activist, wife, mother, all around badass. I've loved her for years.
- @abeautifulmess -- I love Elsie and Emma's lifestyle brand. Plus they regram lots of other pretty pictures in addition to their own projects.
- @the_happy_planner -- I'm so in love with my MAMBI Happy Planners! And I love to get some great inspiration from their official feed.
- @boho.berry -- Amazing bullet journaler! I love following Kara's adventures and pretty drawings.
- @tinyrayofsunshine -- Another great follower of the bullet journal technique. I love her clean style.
- @heidiswapp -- One of my favorite crafty people. Love seeing a mix of life pics and crafty pics.
- @karlthefog -- Official account of Karl, the San Francisco fog. Love these beautiful shots of the city.
- @bayarea_buzz -- Highlights all the great attractions around the Bay Area. Love learning about new places to check out.
Blog-Tember Day 10: My Day (Friday)
Prompt: A day in your life! Take us through it with you by sharing a photo each hour of the day.
Friday started at 7:30am for me. I got up, took a shower, and got Arthur up and dressed. No pictures before showering I am afraid. I started taking my pictures when my presentable day started at 8am.
8pm: No picture, but Arthur went to bed. After, I curled up on the couch, put on Penny Dreadful and relaxed for a bit before going to bed at 10pm. I had an early morning today meeting some crafty friends for breakfast and craft time before heading to a toddler birthday party.
Blog-Tember Day 9: Dream Vacation
Prompt: If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be? Why?
I have always wanted to travel to Europe, specifically Italy and Greece. In fact, I've never left North America. I've done a decent amount of travel in the U.S. especially the East Coast and have been to Toronto, but that's it. I've never crossed a sea. I would love to be able to see Roman and Greek ruins and eat all the unbelievable food. That would be a dream vacation.
Blog-Tember Day 8: House Tour
Prompt: A house/apartment/room tour! Give us a glimpse of your space.
Instead of a whole house tour, I'm going to highlight my favorite part of the house: my craft pantry! When we looked at the house, I was amazed to see a butler's pantry between the kitchen and dining room. This house isn't big enough for a butler's pantry, so what to use it for. J jokingly said it could be my craft room and it turns out that the space is perfect for that. I am primarily a paper crafter (cards and scrapbooking), but occasionally do other crafts. I need a lot of storage area for my supplies and a nice counter or table to work at. This space is perfect suited for my needs. Please excuse the mess. Although I try to clean up after projects, the room tends to look this way during my big crafting days. I thought it would be more honest to leave the mess in the photos. If you look hard enough, you can spy supply items for Arthur's 3rd birthday party next week. Part of my counter always becomes a catch-all for random projects.
Looking in from the kitchen.
Looking in from the dining room.
My main counter/workspace (before cleaning anything up).
Ink and stamps cabinets (my favorites).
Depending on the week, projects can spill over into the dining room. If the twins are not here, there are only three of us eating at a table meant for six. So I use it sometimes. Here I am prepping for new card buffet class.
Not highlighted: general office supply cabinets, paper cabinets (although you can see a ton of cardstock in magazine files on the floor), Project Life cabinets, kid's crafts cabinet, tools drawers, and a few others.
Blog-Tember Day 7: Joyful Things
Prompt: Five things that bring you joy.
- Toddler snuggles -- Arthur's not always the most physically affectionate kid, but I love when he wants to give me a hug or kiss or just snuggle on the couch.
- Coffee -- Am I a cliche? I'm a suburban mom who loves her coffee. It's right. I can't start my day off without it. Getting a good cup of coffee makes me all tingly inside (and not just because of the caffeine.
- Paper crafting -- I love making cards and scrapbooking. This activity helps to recharge me. Plus, I've made some great crafty friends along the way.
- Reading -- Oh the world for a good book. I try to fit in some reading time each day to give myself a little boost. I've managed to not lose my commitment to reading.
- Quiet time -- Being a SAHM to a typical toddler means that there's just noise all the time. It doesn't help that Arthur stopped taking naps over a year ago. I cherish the small chunks of quiet time we get during the day. Sometimes I can convince him to play quietly or read a book to himself to give me a few minutes to recharge. I treasure those moments.
Blog-Tember Day 6: Playlist
Prompt: Create a playlist. What you're listening to now, what encourages you, holiday favorites, etc.
I have two different playlists for today. On the music side, the playlist is just the Hamilton Soundtrack. Holy cow! It's been on repeat for months in our house. I can't get enough of it. Even Arthur loves the music and dances to the songs.
My other playlist is full of the podcasts I love to listen to. I don't spend a ton in the car lately, but often I listen to podcasts while crafting, cooking, and cleaning. Here are my current favorites. I love a mix of pop culture (The Scot and Sassenach), lifestyle (One Bad Mother, The Simple Show), and special interests (Elise Gets Crafty, What Should I Read Next).
Blog-Tember Day 5: Birthday
Prompt: What was your most memorable birthday?
My favorite birthday had to be my 29th birthday party. At the time I was still living in Indiana about 750 miles away from my then bf (now husband). I assumed that my party would be super low-key and boring. Instead, I had a fun night visiting some of my favorite places. The twins were with their father, so I had the night to myself. Woot! The night started with drinks and dessert at a local restaurant. I love that particular place because of their wide selection of beers. I love a good beer (oh my goodness I am craving a beer right now, darn pregnancy) and this place offers so many different ones. Along with my fancy beers, we grabbed some fun and chocolate desserts. Yum yum! After dessert, we moved to a local bar to see my favorite local cover band. They do covers of 80s hair-band complete with alter egos and spandex. So much fun! At the time, I had been following them around town for a few years. Definitely a memorable night!
Blog-Tember Day 4: Currently
Prompt: What are you up to currently? I have examples here and here.
I'm using Bailey's template to highlight my currents
Reading...The Residence by Kate Andersen Brower. My lovely gift exchange partner sent me this book about a month ago. Excited that it's finally come up on my TBR pile.
Playing... trains and cars with the toddler. Shooting for daily play while I can still fit it in.
Watching... The 100 Season 3. As J is out of town for the next two weeks, I've been indulging in shows I know he wouldn't want to watch. Along with The 100, I'm trying to catch up on Outlander and random movies.
Trying... to keep Arthur occupied and stimulated in these few weeks before his life really changes.
Cooking... freezer meals for October and November. I'm trying to fill the freezer before Quentin arrives next month.
Eating... whatever I want. As J is gone, I only have to make food for myself and the toddler. I'm thinking stuffed mushrooms for tomorrow.
Drinking... lots of flavored sparkling water. I'm constantly drinking plain water, but often need a bit more something. The carbonation and slight flavor help me stay hydrated throughout the day.
Texting... a fellow pregnant mom friend as she waits for her baby to be born.
Pinning... a whole collection of topics including card designs, bullet journal ideas, and recipes. My goal is to constantly curate and try out the pins I put on my boards.
Going... to the zoo on Tuesday. Hope I can survive the hills while this pregnant.
Loving... quiet evenings after Arthur goes to sleep. Sometimes I watch tv, sometimes I read.
Hating... how hot I am constantly. Seriously I'm always hot. Hopefully my temperature goes back down after the baby's born.
Discovering... I'm needing even more sleep right now. Must go to bed tonight before 11...
Thinking... about the best way to introduce Arthur to his new little brother. Should he come to the hospital or wait until we come home? Hmmm... still deciding.
Feeling... a bit overwhelmed right now. My due date was changed and the c-section has been scheduled. Plans have been moved up almost two weeks.
Hoping (for)... a comfortable few weeks as Quentin finishes his time in utero.
Listening (to)... the Hamilton soundtrack constantly. Arthur even loves it!
Celebrating... almost reaching full term with this, my last, pregnancy. We're getting so close.
Smelling... the stinky trash in the cans. Thank goodness tomorrow is garbage day.
Ordering... nothing at the moment, although I will need to get Arthur some new shoes. May end up buying them online.
Considering... my long to-do list before the baby arrives. I may end up moving some things around.
Starting... my October design team cards. Wait to get them finished way before baby comes.
Finishing... a yummy apple pie. Not J's favorite, so I'm indulging while he's out of the country.
Blog-Tember Day 3: Summer Favorites
Prompt: Now that summer's at an end, share a list of favorites from the season!
Living in the Bay Area means that summer is far from over around here. But according to the calendar, we are in fall. So, going off of the calendar and not the weather outside, here are my favorites from the season.
- Watching Arthur "swim independently" with his new floaty in the pool
- Lots of iced tea and sparkling water
- Days at the park
- Trips to the candy store with the boys
- Movie nights with the twins
- Crafting days with new friends
- Skirts and dresses in attempting to keep myself cool
- Watching this growing belly; only one month left until Quentin arrives!
- New recipes making their way into my rotation
Now I'm ready for pumpkin everything and fun cocktails (only one month)!
Blog-Tember Day 2: Goals Time
Prompt: Share a list of your current goals.
I always have a list of to-dos a mile long, but for this post, I tried to narrow it down into a few bigger goals I have.
- Make it through the next few weeks -- J is out of the country on a work trip so I'm solo parenting until he comes back on the 16th. Arthur's 3rd birthday party is being held on the 17th. So along with the usual house things, I have a big event coming up to deal with. On top of everything, I'm nearing the end of this pregnancy. Focusing on getting through the next few weeks.
- Finish prepping for the baby -- Baby Quentin will be arriving within the next month. I still have a few things that need to be done to prep. I need to pack my hospital bag, finish organizing the clothes, buy some more diapers, fill the rest of the freezer with prepped meals, and finish up some nursery odds and ends.
- Finish prepping for crafting events through September -- I'll be taking a bit of leave from my crafting business during the month of October, but first I have a few events to finish. I need to prep for a crop day on the 11th, finish the stamp club projects for the 15th, prep the card buffet for the 11th and 20th, and make the rest of the October design team cards. I also want to put all the leftover garage sale items away in the garage until November or so.
- Knock out a few more books before baby comes -- While I have relatively unemcumbered time, I want to make September's reading count. My Happiness Project focus for September is Passion and my passion is reading. I'm hoping for at least 3000 pages and at least 6 books read for the month. I also want to have my TBR piles organized for the rest of the year. I hate having to spend time figuring out what I'm reading next. I want a ready to go pile for when the baby comes.
- Buy all the food and finish prepping for Arthur's birthday party -- I have all the decor and favor bag items purchased. Obviously I will need to decorate the week before the party and clean up the house in preparation, but more importantly I need to finalize the groceyr list and buy the food. I can do this!
- Clean the house -- I plan to do a big downstairs clean before Arthur's party, but I also just want to do a big total house clean before the baby comes. I know I won't be able to do much housework after my c-section, so I need to take advantage of time and energy now.
- Organize Arthur's clothes for the fall/winter -- As part of my house cleaning, I need to take another pass at Arthur's wardrobe for fall/winter. I know he will need new sneakers (his currents are getting small and torn up), but I'm sure he will need a few more pieces before it gets chilly again. I also know there are some current items that need to be retired to the hand-me-down bins.
- Focus on using my planner more to document daily notes and activities -- I love my Happy Planner, but I've been slacking lately. I need to spend some time using it more effectively, but also making small notes in it (a la memory keeping). This will come in handy have the baby comes and I'm trying to recall when he first smiled or laughed or such things.
Blog-Tember Day 1: Hello all!
Prompt: Introduce yourself however you like! Pics, vlog, collage, your choice :)
Hello all! I'm Tobe and I currently live in California with my hubs and children (13, 13, almost 3). I'm also currently 35 weeks pregnant with my fourth boy! This blog started as a way for me to document all the books I read, but has grown into a place for me to write about anything everyone. I still review the books I read, but have focused more and more on what I want to read instead of the newest hottest book out there. In the intervening years, I've also started another blog, The Craft Sea, to document all my paper crafting efforts. Other than the blogs, I run paper crafting classes and events as an Independent Stampin' Up demonstrator and I serve on our local parent group's board as the Director of Social and Charitable Relations. Between those two activities and taking care of the kids and household, I always make time for a bit of reading.
Monthly Life Goals September 2016
August’s Goals:
- Figure out Arthur childcare for October — Fail. Oh man. This is not going well.
- Read 3000 pages — Success! I read 3443 pages this past month.
- Update all calendars and plan activities for August and September — Success! I think I've gotten everything updated until the baby arrives.
- Clean out the playroom — Success! One bag to GW and half a bag of trash.
- Meal plan for August and September; include a few freezer meals for October — 50% success. I have a plan, but I need to actually make the freezer meals.
- Plan out TBR for Sept-Dec — Success! I have an idea of what I want to read for the end of the year.
September's Goals:
- Figure out Arthur childcare for October - Yeah this is going to be difficult. Hopefully after setting a surgery date, I can find something.
- Read 3000 pages - This is turning into a reoccuring thing...
- Finish prepping freezer meals - I have a few weeks left and I want to fill most of the freezer so we can alleviate some stress after the baby comes.
- Finish organizing the baby supplies - Most of the stuff is organized, but I need to do another pass.
- Pull off Arthur's 3rd birthday party - We've bought the decor and supplies, I just need to get the food, decorate, and pull this thing off!
- Prep cards for September, October, November, and December - I fear these cards won't get sent if I don't prep now.